Well , here we are at week three. Its interesting that this past week we have had many “honeymoons over” moments. Now, I frequently have made the observation when a frustrated new owner calls me and tells me that their new horse has been “perfect” and all of a sudden he’s become a total turkey! My first question: has it been about three or four months since you got him? Every time the answer is a resounding, “Yes! How did you know?” My theory here, is that with Cruisers accelerated training, week three is masquerading as month three!
So let me tell you why I’m feeling this way. If you recall, on day one an interesting observation was his fear of putting his head down to eat with the halter on. He didnt eat for about 24 hours, enough to concern me. I believed, and still do, that he was alarmed at the sight of the halter coming behind his eyes when his head lowered. Well, we passed that obstacle on onwards we went. Until yesterday.
I have been taking him out for walks and he’s been great, even no EMU fears! He’s still unhappy about being haltered-fine once its on- but reluctant at first. So I decided to make a habit of haltering and then getting grain. Positive reinforcement. And there, I saw that his sensitivity to movement behind his eyes, like I observed with the halter, was very much still there. As I tried to stand to his side while he ate, he became very agitated. Especially so behind his right eye. He literally tries to keep that one on me, bending his head all around to watch me closely.
So I stood. And he fidgeted. And I stood. And he stomped. And I stood. The grain calling to him from the ground, but to eat, he’d have to put his head down with me behind his eye. By behind his eye, i mean I’m standing at his shoulder facing the same way as he is. So I stood, and he stood, and I stood some more. And the song, Stand By Me played in the background. Cracked me up. Little did I know at the time, I would stand there in this battle of wills for over two hours!
TWO HOURS! Yeah, I think its crazy too. Those of you who remark at my amazing patience, I learned it from mustangs. They are happy to wait you out.
Well, two hours of just standing there doing absolutely nothing gives one time to reflect on their methods. I mean, I could get a sturdy rope, a small round pen, a bag on a stick, and push him to the limit until he stands whether he likes it or not. And in the future we will do that to desensitize and learn how to think through the scary things in life. But as I reflected, and tried not thinking about having to pee, I knew in my heart that this was a trust issue, not a fear issue, and I want him to freely choose to trust me. So I stood. Finally, after a long slow subtle dance of his sly steps away and my casual steps keeping me right where I was, he stomped his foot a few times and then, and I’m not kidding here, then he sneered at me. It was a true sneer, crinkled nose and sidewise glare included. Then he put his head down and ate. Hallaluyah!
I know some of my competition in this challenge and they’d likely have a good chuckle at this posting. We’ll see.
So today, we reinforced that I’m trustworthy from all angles, and it still hasnt been an easy task. My patience has been tried and in those long periods of waiting, my doubts surface. But tonite I really feel we passed a hurdle and he is becoming a willing partner in this endeavor.





